Cleverjo
Thanks. I like actresses and waitresses. It seems wrong when an actress refers to herself as an actor. I cant imagine any waitress would want to be called a waiter, or even a waitron which I agree sounds awful.
malone
Yes I heard a lot of "servers" recently which I think should only apply to tennis, or the computer thing, whatever it is. I had one "server" who said something like, "I am your server Sharon and I am going to wait on you tonight". I should have said, "so you are the waitress" but politeness prevented me. If I go again, I will refer to the female servers as servresses, which seems logical.
Steve
Thanks, I love the traffic light story.