Hi Planks, I share your sentiment - it's been a theme of mine through the last numeric and previous puzzle. If so much time is consumed on chasing up minutiae of a puzzle, unless you're a zen buddhist, it takes away too much of your life.
I'm disappointed that there hasn't been more help on this site for the front end of the puzzle, for example, the difference between the 2 modes of entry for across clues, which was I think what Dylan's original question was about.
If 41 is TEERING, the entry must start with E due to 34 being ORFE. There are 2 unchecked cells in the entry, and a choice of 6 different letters to enter into each. So there needs to be more than just randomness.
And there seems to have been a lot of caginess with the clash...