I hope I can speak neutrally as I never partake in the thread, mainly through lack of confidence.
I doubt whether any offence was meant or intended but having seen references to the word I can also see how it could have gone awry.
I am a woman of a certain age, but having lead a hard life, am not easily offended at all.
The difference is a lack of eye contact, body language and the knowledge of the sensibilities of others when typing on a page is totally different to being in mixed company.