Dear Jolan
I'm so sorry that your thread has descended into this.
I had not intended to post on it but when I read in your message 17/37 that 'I'd love to have Tony's comments' I relayed my views on the clue and the reasons I thought others may think we were being pedantic over what is, after all, only a crossword clue.
My remarks were addressed to you personally (albeit on a public forum) and I included, as you had asked about them, my reasons for not joining your 5@5 for the past few weeks.
Sadly this has resulted in the diatribe from Trevor. He doesn't make clear whether he thinks that the other contributors who post answers at 5pm (& sometimes before) are also
'Anal'. Similarly I am not the only one to comment on the difficulty, or otherwise, of the clues. More 'anals'?
He takes exception to my suggestion that with you being a setter & me being an occasional checker could possibly make us more finicky (exacting) about the correctness of a clue.
I would like to say that maybe Trevor was just having a bad day but, unfortunately he does have 'previous' and feels it falls to him, on behalf of the site, to prick any perceived pretentiousness.
I hope you will continue to set your challenging clues.
Best wishes.
Tony