I've been mulling over whether I should say this all day, but the fact that I can't settle makes me feel compelled to say that I regret my "all good fun" remark.
My bone of contention is 4d - it sits very poorly with me. I can honestly say I haven't heard that word since I was a child and think we are all the better for it. So to see it crop up in a much admired crossword and in a national newspaper, no less, is extremely disappointing
Don't get me wrong, I think we live in a time where people are way too sensitive, with many positively wallowing in their supposed victimhood while others on YouTube and TikTok are tripping over themselves in a race to make a career out of virtue signalling.
That said, this word is exremely offensive, to me at least, and has left a sour taste in my mouth.