Haeremai18, I'm sorry you feel you've been made to feel very small. This site has a lot of helpful people who're happy to give and receive answers - and not just when it's the Rainbow Quiz, but every day, every week, every month and so on.
I've always been a bit baffled by the urgency of Rainbow Quizzers - there's over a month to go until the closing date, yet people seem very anxious to get answers for their last three, six, nine...whatever clues. I sometimes put a quiz aside and don't look at it for a week or two - when I come back refreshed, I'm more likely to come up with a few more answers.