(Aristo, maybe you have met others and not known it. A regular visitor to aforementioned Wheatsheaf from a nearby town, through an overheard conversation, realised we were distantly related - my grandmother's brother was married to his aunt. Over time, we realised shared interests in crosswords, music etc. I had a real PDM on the Wee Stinker forum when I realised he must be Stevie gee. I confronted him and he confirmed it. He still didn't realise my forum identity until I reminded him of my four-legged friend's name).