Thank you all and 5 was 6 letters not 5 so Nachos fits nicely.
Just the one left now then which has me completely bereft
Part of what the wolf does round relations in the SE-
My thought about Waldorf Salad was because of an anagram of A wolf Dr in previous clue. My other line of enquiry was to consider SE - as referring to South East England but I can't make anything of it
Once again thanks to you all I will be definitely in her good books again after this