I'm enjoying deciphering all your clues. Can I check the parsing for a few:
aristo@12...Lout not after whores, oddly excluding women finding plaything to ride
A (rare for aristo) anagram of WHORES -W, not sure about 'lout'
ab16...FU, Napoleon Aggnut!
Fun, a pole on a gg -nut?
jws@20...Dandy Buck needs pusher not peddler
Is it about this
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dandy_horse