Hello, Elle!
I would not expect many to know "havelock", just sheer chance that I read about it before.
But surely you have heard of "bleeding hearts"?
It's a disrespectful term for do-gooders.
I bet your daughters would know the phrase?
Well done, the dentist and your husband!
I am not budging again today, too.
Been laying out stuff I need for the cemetery tomorrow.
Will do a bit of trimming and tidying whilst there.
So, old clothes and secateurs at the ready!