Elle, so sorry for misunderstanding your post and had completely forgotten we could choose the order the posts appeared in - glad you are sorted.
At one point yesterday, I too thought the site was broke it was so slow. :-)
As for the other place - being so much bigger and having a large number of topics it is not quite as cosy as here. However there have in truth been times in my life when people there have been a lifeline to me.
I make no secret of being on both sites and my name is much the same.
Now where's my pen!! LOL