@les40
First of all, I am not your 'pal' and probably never will be. I have no idea what you're on about, but I have noticed that you seem to think you are the 'best thing since sliced bread' on this site, to coin a phrase.
As you seem to know some psychotherapists, you've obviously had some experience. Perhaps you need some more? I have no more to say on the matter.
Oh btw, be good