Mamya I prefer Careerist to Carmelite, and it fits.
The trouble is now I have to throw away away another answer.
So here is the clue and what I have
Unpleasant personal facts hurt them so badly (4,6)
I have ? 0 ? E // ? ? ? T ? S
For the four I am thinking sore and the T comes from careeerist.
Any ideas on this onw?