sal,lots of my comments were ott as well,particularly the davros jokes (funny though,you must admit) which I am sorry about.
If we're talking about "accepting" things it might be a good idea not to automatically attack anyone who says anything you disagree with.
Pas goes beyond any definition of a social club. Her act is absolutely bound to irritate a lot of people and she will have to get used to it.
Yes, I've had a word with Norah as well. I told her that I couldn't be bothered to report some of the things said to me. But because you had complained I now felt obliged to defend myself by showing her some of your choice bits. Basically,she thinks it's ridiculous and doesn't want to be the monitor in the playground. I laugh,but it's a bit rich sal,saying the things you do and then complaining about what other people say.
I expect we'll chat again some time.