Quixote,I'm sorry if people were rude to you when you joined this site; the vast majority of people are friendly, pleasant and helpful but there are exceptions here as anywhere. But I am a little confused: you belittle people for 'hanging around this site', yet here you are, posting items for the sole purpose of getting into conversation/argument with others. Nothing wrong with that, but I would contend that you are just the same as the rest of us, with our various reasons for using the site.
With regard to your initial enquiry I hope you now understand the etiquette of the site - ie give answers/hints as requested. With your undoubted ability you would be a great asset to those of us who do need help from time to time in completeing crosswords, mostly for our own satisfaction - let's face it, not many of us are desperate for the usual prize of a fountain pen or crossword dictionary (coals to Newcastle springs to mind). Here's hoping you can enjoy the forum along with the rest of us. Best wishes mrs t.