Sallyw, sorry for my somewhat tardy comment but I've been tied up recently (lucky me eh?), thanks for bringing this to our attention.
As for ferryman - who the hell do you think you are to write this unmitigated load of drivel?
It would have been better if sallyw had posted her story on some other site than this. This is a crossword help site. But lately, unfortunately in my opinion, it is more of a gossip site. Oh, for a proper moderator to bin these people.
Just who do you think sallyw is? Are you really suggesting that we "bin" one of the most helpful people on this site?
You state that "unfortunately in my opinion..." well I don't want your opinion thank you.
I suggest that if you find us so distasteful you take your business and your nasty comments elsewhere.