Chris,
Are you saying that my failure to include a question mark is a sign of bad manners. Or that my having a go at the question poster for not providing sufficient information is a sign of bad manners. If the former, I couldn't care less. As for the latter, if you can't see that asking for the answer to 14a.18a.4d and 12d.(or whatever) without giving the clue or number of letters is about as bad as bad manners get, then I feel sorry for you.