I've often made things difficult for my daughters' boyfriends. I once casually asked a new victim, from the far end of the dining room table, whether he'd ever been abducted by aliens. He claimed that he hadn't been, whereupon I pointed out that he wouldn't necessarily remember such an incident. My nutty sister caught wind of the conversation and got nosey. When I told her that the poor kid had never been abducted by aliens, she looked down the table at him and said, "You HAVEN'T?"- to which my daughter responded, "Not till now."