Pastille,
When iamme first appeared on this site (a long time ago and well before your debut) he/she was apparently suffering from a shortly to be terminal disease and contemplating topping her/himself. I could go on and outline each successive warped personality but what's the point. You are not dealing with a rational human being in iamme and you certainly shouldn't welcome them with open arms.
Every newcomer to this forum has lately been welcomed by some insult or other from iamme, what is more important, new people who actually do crosswords or iamme's mindless drivel.